The Nerdy Notes

It’s Friday evening today.  The end of the week, and the end of the month. That weird in-between moment where you’re feeling both accomplished and low-key panicked. Payday just hit (or is about to), and for a split second, you feel rich.  But then—boom—rent, EMIs that one "treat yourself" moment, and suddenly, you're questioning every life decision. Money is weird. Sometimes it feels like it disappears overnight, other times it stacks up just enough to let you breathe.  And let’s be real—most of us weren’t exactly given a crash course on "How Not to Go Broke 101."  But understanding how your brain sees money? That’s the game-changer.  1. Your Money Mindset = Your Money Reality Ever heard of “scarcity mindset” vs. “abundance mindset”? It’s real.  If you’re always thinking, “I’m broke, I’ll never have enough,” your brain literally wires itself to believe it.  You hesitate to invest, to take opportunities, to think long-term. On the flip side, an abundan...

I know you won’t read this till the end.  That’s the problem, right? You’ll skim a little, get a notification, check your phone, maybe switch to another tab, and boom—15 minutes gone. Trust me, I get it. I’m Gen-Z too, and our attention spans have been absolutely cooked. I’ve tried everything—Pomodoro timers, blocking apps, even putting my phone in another room—but somehow, I find myself 30 minutes deep into a YouTube documentary about why octopuses has 3 hearts.  No idea how I got there!  So, why is it so damn hard to focus? And more importantly, how do we fix it?  Let’s talk science, work culture, and some brutally real solutions.  The Morning Mind Spiral: Welcome to the Chaos Every morning, it’s the same drill. You wake up, maybe half-motivated, maybe already exhausted. The moment you start work, the mental battlefield begins: 💭 “Okay, today I’ll be super productive.” 💭 “Just need to get through emails first.” (20 minutes later—still in emails.) 💭 “Wait, ...

Career FOMO—aka the modern plague of our generation.  One minute, you're casually scrolling through Instagram, and the next, you see someone your age launching a start-up, buying a house, or becoming a CEO while you’re still figuring out what to have for dinner. Suddenly, your entire existence feels like a tragic comedy. But trust me, you’re not alone.  As your fellow Gen-Z writer (yes, I’m also trying to figure things out), let’s talk about this comparison trap and how to escape it before we all collectively lose our sanity. Why Does Career FOMO Hit So Hard? Back in the day (before Instagram), people only compared themselves to their neighbors or colleagues. Yeah! We used to hate that "Super-talented cousin" who's literally excellent at everything.  Now, thanks to social media, we get to compare ourselves to literally everyone —from the high school friend who became an investment banker to the influencer who’s somehow making millions from posting aesthetic coffee vid...